Passage
Colossians 3.18
18. Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. (ASV)Book: Colossians · ASV / WEB / KJV / YLT
Immediate context (±2 verses)
ASV
16. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts unto God. 17. And whatsoever ye do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
18. Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
- Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. 20. Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing in the Lord. (Colossians 3:16-20, ASV)
WEB
16. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your heart to the Lord. 17. Whatever you do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father, through him.
18. Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
- Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them. 20. Children, obey your parents in all things, for this pleases the Lord. (Colossians 3:16-20, WEB)
KJV
16. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. 17. And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
18. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
- Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. 20. Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. (Colossians 3:16-20, KJV)
YLT
16. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing each other, in psalms, and hymns, and spiritual songs, in grace singing in your hearts to the Lord; 17. and all, whatever ye may do in word or in work, [do] all things in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to the God and Father, through him.
18. The wives! be subject to your own husbands, as is fit in the Lord;
- the husbands! love your wives, and be not bitter with them; 20. the children! obey the parents in all things, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord; (Colossians 3:16-20, YLT)
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Setting
- Speaker: Paul, with "Timothy our brother" named in the greeting (1:1), writing as a prisoner (4:3, 18). Many critical scholars hold that a follower of Paul wrote the letter in his name; others defend Paul's authorship, pointing to its close personal ties with Philemon.
- Audience: the church at Colossae in the Lycus valley of Phrygia, founded by Epaphras (1:7). This verse addresses the wives in the congregation directly, as members of Christian households that also included husbands, children, servants and masters.
- Location: an imprisonment, traditionally Rome, with Ephesus and Caesarea as the main alternatives.
- Time period: about AD 60-62 if Paul wrote from Rome, or the mid-50s if from Ephesus. Scholars who read the letter as written after Paul's death place it later in the first century.
- Literary context: the first line of the household code (3:18-4:1), which takes three pairs in turn: wives and husbands, children and fathers, servants and masters. Similar codes appear in Ephesians 5:22-6:9 and 1 Peter 2:18-3:7. The code follows directly on "whatsoever ye do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus" (3:17).
Theological reading
One half of a pair. The instruction to wives is matched at once by one to husbands: "Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them" (3:19). Each party is addressed directly, as a believer answerable to the Lord, not merely as an object of the other's authority.
As is fitting in the Lord. The reason given is not custom alone but what is "fitting in the Lord." The phrase both grounds the instruction and frames it. The whole household stands under one Lord: servants are told "ye serve the Lord Christ" (3:24), and masters that "ye also have a Master in heaven" (4:1).
Debated application. Christians disagree on how the verse applies today. Complementarians read it as a lasting pattern for marriage grounded in the Lord's order. Egalitarians read it as Christian conduct within the household structures of the first-century world, note that the same code regulates slavery, which the church no longer treats as an institution to preserve, and point to the mutual submission of Ephesians 5:21. Both readings take seriously that the code is written "in the Lord," under the rule that "Christ is all, and in all" (3:11).
Key words
Theologically-loaded Greek or Hebrew words in this verse may have entries in the lexicon. Curated to roughly 100 contested terms across the corpus, not every word.
- G5293 - hypotasso, hypotasso, Strong's G5293
- G2962 - kyrios, kyrios, Strong's G2962
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Why these four translations
ris3n chose ASV, WEB, KJV, and YLT for two reasons together. They are the most literal English translations available (formal-equivalence: word-for-word renderings that preserve the Hebrew and Greek grammar rather than smoothing it into modern dynamic-equivalence idiom). And they are in the public domain in the United States, which means fair-use quotation at any length requires no publisher license. Modern licensed translations (NASB95, ESV, NIV) restrict volume of quotation under their copyright terms, so they are not used at stub-level coverage here. NASB95 appears only on hand-curated rich passage hubs under Lockman Foundation's fair-use allowance.
The four:
- ASV (American Standard Version, 1901). The basis of the modern critical-text English tradition.
- WEB (World English Bible, contemporary). Public-domain revision in the ASV line, in current English.
- KJV (King James Version, 1611). Reformation-era, Textus Receptus base.
- YLT (Young's Literal Translation, Robert Young, 1862). Hyper-literal preservation of Hebrew and Greek grammar; useful for word-study work even where English reads stiff.
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